Hotel Invites

A thing that has happened so many times I’ve lost count, is when I perform next to another male main act from abroad. They often treat me as an object and expect me to go to the hotel with them later. They always message me before the gig like ”What are you doing later? I stay at x hotel.” When I respond being offended and shocked they later don’t even look me in the eye at the events, cowards. I’ve also stopped getting booked next to them, so I’m sure they blacklisted me from some promoters.